Friendship OR FAKEship
Ok In my 26 years I have really learned the true meaning of friendship and fakeship! A friend is someone you can count on point blank period. Now I have a couple of friends I have been cool with over the years that I wouldn’t trade for the world. My girls have been there for me whenever I needed them in state or out of state my girls have my back. We don’t talk everyday on the phone, we might send emails, text, fb wall post, twitter mentions or even a occasional card in the mail. But when they call or need me I am there and it goes both ways. Over the past couple of months I have seen and heard so much BS concerning so called friends. It gets over whelming because in all actuality ½ of the problem is the so called friend was just being tolerated in the first place. Its human nature to always try and see the good with in people but everybody is not a goodperson. I am a very kind hearted person and my issue was I would always be cool with anybody without checking their resume. Because I really don’t like judging people based on what someone else has to say. I have run into some real TOXIC chicks these past couple of years. But with those bad situations I have gained knowledge and wisdom. I am thankful for the hand full of home girls I have. Everything has not always been peaches and cream but no matter what we disagreed upon we have managed to get past it and that’s how I know what real friendship feels like.
Fake Friend
1. Will hang out with your ex and his new girl and then come back and tell you about it. ß She is not your friend!
2. You and her get into an argument she BLOCKS you on Facebook and Twitter then dedicates her status updates to you by putting your name in it so the world can feel sorry for her. When everything that happened was her fault in the first place ßChildish
3. Soon as she gets a man she is MIA and her excuse is “he don’t like you” U are puzzled because you really don’t know this guy. ßFake
4. When you go out to eat together you always pay and she never offers to pay you back. When you mention it to her she gets mad like it’s your fault ßShe is using you
5. She is friends with someone that does not like you. And on top of all that she talks about the chick to you and tells you all this chicks business ~NEWS FLASH~ she is telling that chick your business also ßPHONEY
6. She complicates your life with unnecessary drama 24/24, forcing you to fight her battles. ßnot your friend
7. She will date your ex and say “you guys aren’t together anymore” ßGross
Now these are just a few examples but Ladies I know we all are smart enough to read between the lines on this subject.
P.S. This blog is strictly for the ladies, because guys don’t have friendship problems! Oh and I don’t either!
XOXO~ 1stMeganRichelle85
